Well, summer for most of us means vacation time and kids driving you insane. But for military families, it also means it’s a time to see friends move to other duty stations. And though we in the military have mastered the gift of “staying-in-touch”, it can still be difficult to say “See ya” to close friends.
Our close friend Flower Girl will be moving this summer, and Hubby and I wish to give her a nice going away gift. And this is the difficult part. Usually Hubby just asks me to get something for someone because let’s face it: shopping is something I do quite well. But this time he wants to help pick out a gift, because she was his protegΓ©, and he her mentor. And I want to pick it out because she and I are like sisters.
And that means what HE thinks is a great gift is not necessarily what I think is a great gift. My suggestions of artwork, Le Creuset (she has been wanting a good sized casserole), Texas themed jewelry and such, have been met with reluctance. His suggestions of a fossil display, or some medical themed display have been met with a “Huh??” I think we are at cross purposes because he wants to give her something she can hang or display in her office, and I want to give her something she can have in her home. So, I think it’s best if we each get her something different. He can give her a nice office gift, and I will give her a small gift for her home.
Unless we find an antique pathology knife. She can use that at work and at home π
July 10th, 2013 at 10:37 AM
Been there done that many times. I think you’ve got the right idea, though…go with a gift from each. You each have a different relationship with her, finding one gift to cover it all probably isn’t going to happen. Individualize your gifts.
July 10th, 2013 at 12:27 PM
I think that’s the best bet, too π
July 10th, 2013 at 11:26 AM
Don’t forget booze and books. Highly customizable…not really great for display, though…unless you find an antique decanter or some awesome reading specs.
July 10th, 2013 at 12:27 PM
She got plenty of wine from me already π
July 10th, 2013 at 12:53 PM
DVD copy of “The Sixth Sense”.
July 10th, 2013 at 12:54 PM
HAHAHAHAHA!!! WINNAH!!! π
July 10th, 2013 at 5:04 PM
yeah, one from each.
July 10th, 2013 at 5:56 PM
I think we have a quorum, or consensus, or whatever it’s called π
July 10th, 2013 at 7:47 PM
Three gifts. One from you, one from hub, and one picked up at a gag gifts store.
That way you can always have a laugh, and those are worth gold sometimes.
July 10th, 2013 at 9:57 PM
Hm…didn’t think of a gag gift.
I sure hope Hubby didn’t think of it either π
July 11th, 2013 at 6:48 PM
Fake vomit, whoopee cushions, a boomerang, a can of mushrooms with a realistic “Cream of Slugs” label that someone could gin up in photoshop… All fun.