A few weeks ago I took my son to get his hair cut. This was not only momentous, but timely, since the awards assembly was coming up. It was important that he would be able to see where he was going when accepting his awards. As I was wating for him to be finished, another hair stylist came in and asked if I needed to be seen. Disclosure: we were at Sports Clips. I smiled and said no, that I was waiting on my son. She smiled and said that if I needed to have my gray taken care of, she could recommend a salon for me.
I was not amused….
I politely said thank you, and left it at that. But after a few weeks, it came to mind that some people are rather presumptive over women’s vanities. True, we get bombarded by Madison Avenue’s version of what a woman should look like and act like. Some advertisers are moving away from the “triathlon-gourmet-supermodel” template, like Dove™ and their Campaign for Real Beauty. And though I admit to dyeing my hair over a decade ago, I have to say, I do love my gray, and embrace it like spun silk, even though it tends to feel like wiry wool. I like to think of them as God’s Highlights, and I know for a fact I earned each and every single one 😉
May 31st, 2011 at 2:11 PM
While we’re on the subject; “Just For Men” should just go away. Nancy-boi crap! I earned ’em!
May 31st, 2011 at 5:30 PM
Every few weeks I go visit my hairdresser of 15 years and she searches vailianty for the remaining brown hairs amongst the gray sidewall while we discuss smartphones, weekend cooking plans, trips and the weather……….lather, rinse, repeat as required.
May 31st, 2011 at 11:47 PM
Hey Stranger! Sorry for my absence. Got caught up in real life. I liked your silver streaks a lot and I’m trying to be brave enough to quit dyeing mine away. A general malaise regarding salons helps, but sometimes I just can’t stand it.
June 1st, 2011 at 9:30 AM
Howdy!! Hope to give you a call soon, since school is almost over!!
June 1st, 2011 at 5:56 AM
I could care less about my gray hairs (mostly in the facial hair, and chest). It wouldn’t bother me to go bald. I earned them, and my wife still thinks I’m a hunk. That’s all that matters.
June 1st, 2011 at 8:36 AM
My wife loves my gray hairs. I’ve joked about getting my hair dyed, a shade darker than my natural color, and she always gives me a stare that says if I were to actually do that, the only romance I would get until the dye wore off would be with my right hand.
June 1st, 2011 at 9:30 AM
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
Y’all are too funny 😀
June 1st, 2011 at 9:37 AM
I think my gray hair is kickass.
June 1st, 2011 at 10:18 AM
It sure does!!!
June 1st, 2011 at 3:29 PM
So say we all!! Though it is kinda neat that my younger brother has more gray than I do…hehehe.
June 2nd, 2011 at 9:09 AM
Hmmm. It appears I should have sent that light saber earlier.
You could have styled her a bit while imparting a valuable life lesson to your son.
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:52 AM
You have no idea how close my hand came to grabbing my knife. I was itching to do so!
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:40 AM
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June 2nd, 2011 at 5:42 PM
Most of the time I feel the same way. Then I change my mind and do something stupid and dye it myself. Then i end up just cutting it shorter when the roots grow out, and tell myself I love my gray and will never do that again. Then I do.
Brava, Agster!
June 8th, 2011 at 2:13 PM
I have it on very good authority that “gray looks awesome!!!
; )
June 8th, 2011 at 2:53 PM
I happen to agree with them, wholeheartedly 😉